biro said:
Aram said:
orthoreader said:
Ainnir said:
Catechism and spiritual guidance for women who may not be able to "ask their husbands at home." Assisting with teen and adult female baptisms; they do happen. A trained and dedicated Titus 2 woman for the parish, someone who can visit and pray with new moms, single women, etc. Or to accompany the priest as he visits. It doesn't have to involve the altar, and it's not a stepping stone to priestesshood. Women need each other, but many are not steady enough to offer good support, really. Men often are, but if there is not a husband a woman can turn to, she is left without vital support or put in a situation human weakness can rarely bear. The role of a deaconess could provide such support without the risk. Godparents can fill this to some degree, but I doubt are often actually trained.
OK. But is this a need? My priest does every single one of these.
What, he doesn't like competition? Or need more time to do any number of other tasks?
There is much work to do in the church; why not find ways for women to do it, too?
He doesn't think women are good.
Well to some respect, it has to do with women having to be quiet in the Church as St. Paul stated. It's not whether they're "good" or "bad" it's what's required for their salvation. They certainly shouldn't be preaching in any way, shape, or form. I mean, silence is best for everyone, but
it has special eschatological significance for women.
I think the biggest issue is that many don't understand what they are asking for when they seek out ordination. Men and women. But, women especially have no idea what they would be getting themselves into. I think if people had a glimpse of the attacks and temptations that hit Deacons, Priests, Bishops they'd think twice. It's soul crushing, it's heartbreaking, lives have been ruined.
More so than not, it seems people seek out ordination for status. Especially protestant converts who were in some form of leadership in their previous settings and now believe they just must have the same status in the Orthodox Church.
Other than monastics, I have yet to see a woman who seeks such a role do it because it was a true calling. To be honest,
I don't think a woman would even understand the calling even if she had it. She wouldn't be able to identify it. Rather, they seek it only because the perception is there that "someone said they're not allowed." This is not a knock on a woman. Women are able to perceive other things much, much better than men. Their main role, and in some respect, the most important role, is within the home church.