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I am not gay, I do like women -- but I have told my priest about feelings of same sex attraction in the past.  He has never treated me any differently from anyone else.  The fact of the matter is, many people have this urgent need to be accepted due to their sexuality and this is a mistaken approach.  The religion of the "Self" which has promoted the increase in secularism, and moral relativism in today's age has got to stop at some point. 
 

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I am queer as a three dollar bill.  I have spent 51 years in the hell of being a lesbian in a man's body.  My Priest is OK with it, so that is at least a plus.
 

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I'm not gay, but I doubt I'd be treated much differently than I am now if I was.
 

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I'm not gay but I'd be disappointed if no one didn't suspect me as such.
 

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Gay? Dude. I'm a professional cynic, moonlighting as a pessimist. :p

My priest might have to remind me to tone down the snark.
 

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Michał Kalina said:
Maybe 20%. I think everyone is at least a bit.
Bad joke:

When does someone realize they're gay?

- After about six beers.

(end bad joke)

;)
 

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Michał Kalina said:
Maybe 20%. I think everyone is at least a bit.
What makes you think so? I've never really understood what people mean when saying that everyone's a bit gay. Do they perhaps mean that their liver is sexually attracted to people of same sex as they are while their kidneys are not?
 

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- I am not repelled by pictures of some handsome males, I sometimes enjoy looking at males I consider handsome (in aesthetic way, not in the pornographic one)
- I do not share some typical male hobbies or interests (motorisation, team sports etc.)
- I like music associated with gay culture (Village People, TomBoy, Culture Club...) and glam rock.
- I support gay rights (civil uniions, child adoption etc.) provided they do not try to reach religious institutions.
- Some of my friends asked me or my other friends whether I'm gay.

- On the other hand I am sexually attracted to females, hence the 20%.
 

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Michal,

none of those make you gay.
 

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Asteriktos said:
I'm 0% gay, but I am heteroflexible.  8)
I prefer to say that I am a curious heterosexual. :police:
 

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JamesRottnek said:
Alpo said:
Michal,

none of those make you gay.
Read Freud some time, and his theories on bisexuality.
I'm sorry but that sounds pretty much like suggesting reading Newton's theories about physics and Lamarck's theories about evolution. Assuming that they were scientific to begin with, a bit outdated.
 

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Michał Kalina said:
Alpo said:
Michal,

none of those make you gay.
I know the only one thing is a penis' trigger.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :D  Even then, I'm still not convinced.  If you concentrate on anything with enough focus... that can happen. Does it mean that you're attracted to what you're focusing on? Not necessarily.
 

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biro said:
Michał Kalina said:
Maybe 20%. I think everyone is at least a bit.
Bad joke:

When does someone realize they're gay?

- After about six beers.

(end bad joke)

;)
Totally misread that word.
 

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Tallitot said:
tweety234 said:
How does your priest treat you? and how do you feel? Just curious.
yes.
tweety234 said:
How does your priest treat you?
don't have a priest, my rabbi's ok with it.
tweety234 said:
and how do you feel?
I feel fine, how do you feel?
I meant how do you feel about the way they treat you. But you said that your rabbi is ok with it. Therefore I suppose you are ok with it too. Thanks for answering.
 

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Punch said:
I am queer as a three dollar bill.  I have spent 51 years in the hell of being a lesbian in a man's body.  My Priest is OK with it, so that is at least a plus.
if you feel like a lesbian in a man's buddy. That means you are straight. Because lesbians are attracted to women not men.
 

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tweety234 said:
Punch said:
I am queer as a three dollar bill.  I have spent 51 years in the hell of being a lesbian in a man's body.  My Priest is OK with it, so that is at least a plus.
if you feel like a lesbian in a man's buddy. That means you are straight. Because lesbians are attracted to women not men.
I believe that would make Punch gay and transgender. Dunno if they were being serious here.
 

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Alpo said:
Michał Kalina said:
Maybe 20%. I think everyone is at least a bit.
What makes you think so? I've never really understood what people mean when saying that everyone's a bit gay. Do they perhaps mean that their liver is sexually attracted to people of same sex as they are while their kidneys are not?
since we all have both male and female hormones. That actually makes us bisexuals though, not Gay. People are born bisexuals in my opinion. Not Gay. But then again. That is subjective.
 

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That person said:
tweety234 said:
Punch said:
I am queer as a three dollar bill.  I have spent 51 years in the hell of being a lesbian in a man's body.  My Priest is OK with it, so that is at least a plus.
if you feel like a lesbian in a man's buddy. That means you are straight. Because lesbians are attracted to women not men.
I believe that would make Punch gay and transgender.
Indeed it does.
 

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I don't know why this struck me as funny but when I refreshed my "Unread Posts" page, the first thread title was "Can I wear a robe to the Divine Liturgy?" followed by this one.
 

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theistgal said:
I don't know why this struck me as funny but when I refreshed my "Unread Posts" page, the first thread title was "Can I wear a robe to the Divine Liturgy?" followed by this one.
It is a sign from God: Gays are to wear robes at the Liturgy.
 

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tweety234 said:
Punch said:
I am queer as a three dollar bill.  I have spent 51 years in the hell of being a lesbian in a man's body.  My Priest is OK with it, so that is at least a plus.
if you feel like a lesbian in a man's buddy. That means you are straight. Because lesbians are attracted to women not men.
Yes, but where does my love for flowered tea cups, fancy stationary and dislike of men and sports fit into this.
 

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JamesRottnek said:
theistgal said:
I don't know why this struck me as funny but when I refreshed my "Unread Posts" page, the first thread title was "Can I wear a robe to the Divine Liturgy?" followed by this one.
It is a sign from God: Gays are to wear robes at the Liturgy.
So millions of the "Anglo-Catholic" element in the main Anglo-Saxon churches will attest (tEc, Canada, and of course England).  :laugh:
 

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Sometimes I am, but sometimes I have a bad day, so not as much then.  Usually, I am not because I tend to be on the grumpy side.  I have surprised a few people now and again when I show up chipper and spry.

What?  Ooohh!  You mean the fake definition of the word.  :-[

......no
 

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Kerdy said:
Sometimes I am, but sometimes I have a bad day, so not as much then.  Usually, I am not because I tend to be on the grumpy side.  I have surprised a few people now and again when I show up chipper and spry.

What?  Ooohh!  You mean the fake definition of the word.   :-[

......no
"Fake definition of the word."  Really?  What will it take to convince you that THE MEANING OF A WORD CAN CHANGE?
 

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Michał Kalina said:
Maybe 20%. I think everyone is at least a bit.
Sorry brother, but you are going to have to speak for yourself on that one.

I can absolutely say I am 0% gay without a doubt in my mind.
I do not see "attractive males" or look at their photos where I don't mind...  I can't depict really.   On Yahoo sometimes I see stuff posted as "the new sexiest man" and a photo on their main site... I'm like huh?  How can they see this?

I am grossed out by gay anything.  Males holding hands even (in a gay fashion).  Hugs that are just not manly at the wrong time.  There are even certain gestures gay men make that weird me out (how their eyes want to eat me - LOL).

Typical male stuff isn't needed.  I like motors okay... Not a nascar guy or anything.  Sports don't watch them.  I do have go-karts that I fix with my sons.  We also chunk axes at wood chunks... I guess those are kind of manly.  We shoot guns, BB/Pellet & real guns around here.   I don't mind helping out my wife with knitting on occasion if she needs it.  I also like to cook, which I guess can be male or female interest.

I can truly say that I have never once been attracted or felt attraction to a male.

My sense of style is nil.   I'd wear a hole filled T-Shirt and ancient jeans if my wife would let me.   I can't stand shopping for clothes, and will wear whatever she buys for me just to save myself the torture of clothes shopping.

A real hell for me would be an endless landscape of clothing racks, shoe racks, fabric bolts, and fashion accessories... for eternity...  Like an endless Macy's with racks to a vanishing point.    :( :( :( :(
 

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yeshua, you do not aesthetically speaking at least see or recognise though superficial it may be the beauty or the lack thereof in the same gender?
 

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I think gays are less likely to hit their kids.
 
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