JamesR, I used to say the same thing when I was your age. I even looked into surgically making sure I had no kids around age 19-20. I had a less than pleasant home life and I have 4 sisters, all of whom are anywhere from 6 to 15yr younger than me. Time changes people. I now have 2 of my own. How about asking her if she would be be open to no kids versus an all across the board never for both you guys.JamesR said:How do I find out if a woman wants children or not? I reeeeally don't want to have them, mostly due to bad experiences having to watch my siblings all the time, but I know that like 90% of women want children.
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