podkarpatska said:
Fr. John and Neil have summed it up. FYI, the ACROD pew book clearly states only Orthodox Christians spiritually prepared are allows to commune at the proper point in the liturgical text. If an Eastern Catholic parents himself as an Orthodox Christian, I would argue any sin is clearly on him, regardless of what his church teaches. To us Orthodox, inter communion is the END result of future church unity, not a step towards it.
If someone approaches the Chalice and I do not know them, I always ask them if they are Orthodox.
If they tell me that they are Orthodox and are not, they are committing a terrible sin by lying to receive the Eucharist. Some people are offended, but I would rather offend someone who should not take Communion than offend God by giving it to them to avoid an argument. Once a Melkite woman wanted to take Communion in my Church. I tried to diplomatically tell her that only members of the Eastern Orthodox Church can take Communion. She argued with me and finally told me that she had said the same thing to Metropolitan Philip a few weeks before when he refused to give her Communion. Once an Episcopalian was in town for a funeral of a relative who was a member of my parish. She wanted to take Communion and naturally, I told her that she could not take Communion in the Orthodox Church. She came back for the 40 Day Memorial and told me that she had spoken with her Episcopal Bishop who told her that I had no right to deny her Communion. I reminded her that Episcopal Bishops have no authority over what we do in the Orthodox Church. We have a sheet in every pew that welcomes visitors, but informs them that only Eastern Orthodox Christians can take Holy Communion, but some people who are not Orthodox occasionally approach the Chalice. A few months ago, I was waiting in line to pay for my purchases at the local Walgreen's. The man before me turned to me and began to loudly complain in front of all the people in line that I had denied him Communion. I told him that in our Church only faithful members of the Eastern Orthodox Church may receive the Eucharist if they have prepared by fasting, prayers and Confession.
When a new Priest is ordained, after the Anaphora, the Bishop puts the consecrated Lamb on a diskos and hands it to him saying something like, "You must guard and protect the Eucharist for you will be held accountable at the Last Judgment if you have knowingly given Communion to someone who is unworthy."
Fr. John W. Morris