Before we blame the priest, or the Holy Sacrament.... there was this post on Facebook earier today:
I have seen someone has shared the very sad problem with the baby who died in Romania.
I need to clarify a few aspects because I see the social media and The Guardian wrote only lies, to get the church involved in something like this.
1. First of all, baby was a premature baby, born 5 or 6 weeks before the term.
2. The baby was born on 15 Dec 1.8 or so kg, and was connected to all the machines for 3 weeks.
3.parents didn't mention anything to the priest and got the child to be baptised on around the date he was supposed to be born.
4.the baby had underlying problems which is not. Mentioned anywhere.
5. Baby didn't die at church, there is movie taken by the family during the baptism, when baby came out the water baby was crying and he didn't die.
6. Baby died 12 hrs later to hospital because he had liquid on his lungs
7. The major and fatal mistake was that his mother gave baby a bottle of milk minutes before the priest put baby in the baptismal.
8. Social media is lying everywhere and throw the fault on the priest. A big lie and mistake, I am Romanian and I was following this since Sunday.
9. Doctors managed to drain 110ml liquid, pink. It's impossible for a child at 6 weeks old to swallow that amount of liquid in 3.3seconds and baby was out the baptismal too during these 3 seconds.
10. I am a parent too, but when you know your child was a premature and you want to baptise it, you must speak to your doctor, the one who is treating your baby and ask permission for this and also to mention this to the priest. That baby was 3 kg or so. Very little.. However priest didnt know and the doctor either. It is a serious problem to bring a child around the date he was supposed to be born at term with a premature situation and lungs not developed enough to be baptised, or even to go out the house. Poor priest, its not his fault.. Please don't believe The guardian, its a lie
I don't know if it is true or not... but, all these factors should be taken into consideration.
I even have someone messaging me via Facebook and yelling that this is God's doing... that He kills babies... through what we claim to be a holy process of baptism.
All I can say is that I was also a premie. Born over 5 weeks early back before all this modern medicine was available. My baptism was not delayed, but, done asap in case I should die before being baptized. On my third day of life, laying on my godfather's open palm, I was baptized at home because I was so small it was dangerous to take me to church, especially since there was a snowstorm that day. The priest came and baptized me, without fully submerging me, out of care for my tiny body. I survived... and I am baptized.
It is a sad occurance that this baby passed away. I do not know who is at fault.... if anyone. May the child rest in peace, and may it's death be a lesson to all... to slow down, and be more diligent in our actions... and to treasure and safeguard life.
Society is using this instance against the Church... we must not jump on that bandwagon... we must defenct the Christ, the Church, and the Holy Sacraments.